- Suggest a different activity.
By thinking of something better to do, you’re offering everyone an “out.” You just might be surprised who might take you up on it.
If you think the others are going to do something you don’t want to be involved in, just leave. You can make up an excuse, or you can say nothing at all. If you lead the way, others may follow.
You can be polite, but you still aren’t interested. You can say, “It’s something I’m just not into.”