Although Jean Louise never really knew her mother, she never felt deprived of parental love. Atticus was a busy man, but he was never too busy for his children. Eventually, Jean Louise recalls, she began to need Calpurnia’s womanly insight in her life when she reached puberty and began menstruating. Even as she grew up into a woman, Atticus and Jack continued to raise her to be self-sufficient—in violation of the norm of the women around her.
Jean Louise comes to realize that her own definition of moral decency has been defined by her father’s behavior. She had become complacent in the assumption that her father was perfect, or nearly so.