In traditional Hindu communities, marriages are sometimes arranged by the parents of the bride and groom. (In India, 70-90% of marriages are arranged.)
Engagement (Sagai or Mangni):
The parents of the bride and groom come together to announce the engagement and confirm their intention to arrange the marriage. Gifts are often exchanged between the families as a sign of mutual approval and respect.
Haldi and Mehendi:
Before the wedding, rituals such as Haldi (the application of turmeric paste on the skin for purification and beautification) and Mehendi (henna designs on the hands and feet of the bride) are performed to prepare the bride and groom for the ceremony.
Baraat and Welcome Ceremony:
The wedding often begins with the Baraat, where the groom arrives at the wedding venue in a procession, accompanied by family and friends.
The bride welcomes the groom and his family with rituals such as offering flowers, rice, and water (Aarti).
Wedding Ceremonies:
The ceremony begins with a Ganesh Puja (prayer to Lord Ganesh) to seek blessings for a successful wedding and to remove obstacles.
During the ceremony, Kanyadaan takes place, where the bride's father places her hand in the groom's hand as a sign of transferring responsibility.
Exchange of Vows and Symbols:
The groom offers the bride symbolic gifts, including a Mangalsutra (holy necklace) and Sindoor (red powder to apply to her forehead), as signs of their marital bond.
They walk together around the sacred fire (Agni) in the Saptapadi ceremony, taking seven steps and making vows of mutual support and love.
Dowry:
In some traditional communities, a dowry may be agreed upon and handed over by the bride’s parents to the groom and his family. This may include money, jewelry, clothing, or other gifts meant to assist in the start of the new household.
Blessings and Conclusion:
After the wedding ceremony, elder family members and priests bless the couple, wishing them a long and happy life together.
The reception often follows, where family and friends congratulate the couple and celebrate the new union.
These ceremonies and rituals in an arranged marriage highlight the cultural and spiritual values within Hindu traditions, emphasizing family bonds, respect for parents, and the blessing of divine forces for the happiness and well-being of the couple.