4.6 Safe sex

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• Leerjaar 2

B6 Safe sex

• Jacket in your locker
• Put your things on your desk

       Laptop/Book

       Notebook, pencil case

• Bag on the floor
  
• Read pages 36-39

Lessongoals

• Evaluate: I can explain how wishes and boundaries can be set and respected in a sexual relationship by describing healthy communication and consent.
• Remember: I can name various STIs and explain how they can be prevented by identifying common infections and describing ways to reduce risk.

Homework U4 B6

Wheel of homework

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Reward

Penalty

Rewards

• +1 cm2 cheatsheet = you get to make a cheatsheet for a test. This starts being 1 by 1 cm. Everytime you earn this it gets 1 cm bigger to a max of 4 by 4 cm.
• 1/3 +0.5 = If you earn this 3 times you get to add 0,5 to one of your biology marks.
• Snitch = You can pick a classmate who also is checked for homework, you earn two V's (having 3 earns you a 1/3 +0,5)
• Too bad = You only get one V
  

penalties

• 45 min extra worktime = you need to come after school and do homework, this will last for 45 min or until the task is done
• Coloringpage = You get to pick a coloringpage, You need to color it and perform tasks that might be on it. You need to hand it in during the next lesson, If you don't you get 2 marks.
• 2/1 marks = a mark is an X, if you get 3 of these you will automaticly earn the 45 min extra worktime.
• Snitch = You can pick a classmate who also is checked for homework
• Lucky! = You don't get a penalty

Pair-Share

Pair: Talk about the topics below with your neighbour.

Try to decide on an answer for each question:

• At what moment do you have sex in a relationship?
• How can you make sure sex is fun and enjoyable for both people?
• What is consent, and how/when do you ask consent?
• What are wishes and boundaries considering sex?
• When/how do you talk about wishes/boundaries?
• Share: Talk about answers during plenary session

If I were to go over someone's boundary during sex.
I would notice that

05

Why do people have sex?

Unacceptable sexual behaviour

Sexual harassment

• Pinching someone's butt
• Touching/grasping people
• Making sexual comments 

Sexual violence

Being forced into acts of a sexual nature: 

Sexual assault

• Being forced into Sexual behaviours: touching genitals/breasts
• No actual penetration          yet!

Rape

• Being forced into penetration or sexual intercourse, or having it against your will

Incest

• Sex with members of your family

Via smartphone/apps

• Being forced to send nude photos/ showing genitals/breasts
• (Threaten to) make nude photos public
• Grooming = online pedophiles

Positive sexual behaviour

A healthy sexual relationship includes:

• asking for/giving Consent 
• Talking about wishes and boundaries, 
• Feeling connected = feeling intimacy
• Experiencing fun during sex = lust (Libido = sexdrive)

= act of putting a penis inside a vagina or anus or other 'hole'

One of the guys clearly is uneasy with the things that are happening.
Why doesn't he say/do something?

Too many people would say this behaviour is 'normal'.
Why would people think that?

Victim blaming

What is victim blaming?

• = People who have been targeted by unacceptable sexual behaviour (usb) are seen as quilty/stupid.
• Makes these people feel shame and not talk about what happened
• The person doing the usb is always the one who is guilty!

When a woman dresses sexy, it's her on fault when she gets sexually harassed

Strongly agree

Agree

Disagree

Strongly disagree

Men are more often guilty of unacceptable sexual behaviour than women.
Why is that?

STI's

STI's

= Sexually transmitable infection (NL = SOA)

• Diseases/infections that are tranmitted       during intercourse (contact between sexual organs, mouth, anus) 

Well-known STI's

• HPV
• HIV
• Chlamydia

Human papillomavirus

• Cause genital warts and cervical cancer (in the uterus)
• Can cause other types of cancer in both men and women
• Almost everyone gets infected, without much problems
• At 10 children are vaccinated against the most dangerous kinds of the virus

Human immunodeficiencyvirus

• Causer of AIDS
• Immune system stops working, makes you vulnerable to other diseases
• Sero positive = The virus is in your body, but you do not have AIDS 
• Nowadays medicine can help people live a healthy life with AIDS, also vaccinations are starting to be succelful treatments

Chlamydia bacterium

• Causes inflamation of anus, uterus and urethra. Causes pain and white fluid to come out of urethra during urination.
• Can make someone infertile if not treated
• Easily treatable with anti biotics
• Most widespread STI

During unsafe sex someone who is infected can transmit the STI to the other person.

An STI is not created by unsafe sex! A person already needs to be infected.

Sometimes the infected person only carries the STI, but is not showing symptoms. They can still transmit the STI!

Best ways to prevent STI's:

• Use a condom / have safe sex
• Be tested on STI's

!

To transmit = to pass something from one person to another

What you should do: U4 B6

• Pgs 55-58
• Asgmt  1, 2, 6, 8, 10 (11, 12)

Done with the above?

• Work on the next chapter(s)
• Learn for the test 
• Make other homework
• Read a book

Zs = Working in Silence

• No asking questions
• Silent, don't disturb anyone
  
• Stay at your  desk

What you should do: U4 B6

• Pgs 55-58
• Asgmt 1, 2, 6, 8, 10 (11, 12)

Done with the above?

• Work on the next chapter(s)
• Learn for the test 
• Make other homework
• Read a book

Zw = Working with whispering

• Teacher is available for questions
• Only whisper with the student next to you
• Stay at your  desk

People who are victim of unacceptable sexual behaviour, have a higher chance of getting STI's
How is that possible?

Tidy Duty

3 people each lesson

• Desks: empty and straight
• Chairs:  underneath the desks OR end of day: on the desks
• Floor: no rubbish