CIT - Sexuality

• Burgerschap
• MBO
• Studiejaar 2

In the news

What type of relationships do you know?

Types of relationships

Polyamorous                     Long distance relationship

Open relation                     Heterosexual relationship 

Monogamous                    Polygamous relationship

Steady relation                Platonic relationship

LAT relation

Homosexual relation

Asexual relation                           

In The Netherlands you can love who you want

1. Yes
2. No

In how many countries is homosexuality forbidden by law?

1. 50
2. 120
3. 100
4. 70

STD

STD means: sexually transmitted disease 

How do you get a STD?

What types of STD's are there?

soa krijg je door slijmvlies contact:

seks, pijpen, beffen.

chlamydia, gonorroe, hiv/aids, hpv

soa krijg je door slijmvliescontact en zoenen: herpes

soa krijg je van persoonlijke spullen:

hepatitis B, genitale wratjes.

STD - test

• Till 25 years 
• Free
• Anonymous
• At least 1 time a year 
• GGD

https://www.ggdhaaglanden.nl/soa.htm

STD's

• Hundred thousands of people per year get a STD 
• Most common: chlamydia
  
• Reason for STD's: not using protection 
• Unknowingly transmitted 
• One-night-stand: 4 out of 10 don't use condoms

A girl wears provocative clothing to school

Normal

Not so normal

A teacher calls a student cute and attractive

This is okay

This is not okay

If someone is under influence of drugs or alcohol, they can still easily express their boundaries

Agree

Disgree

A tennis teacher (18 yrs) has a relationship with his student (16 yrs)

This is okay

This is not okay

It's fine to send nude pictures to someone you trust

Agree

Disagree

Sexuality is a very normal thing, it shouldn't be something we don't talk about

Agree

Disagree

Pregnancy

Pregnancy 

• Make an appointment with your GP to talk about what you want 
• If you want to keep the pregnancy: make an appointment with an obstetrician
• If you want to end the pregnancy: the GP can refer you to a clinic or you can make an appointment at a clinic yourself 
• A pregnancy can be terminated by: 
• till 9 weeks: with an abortion pill or cuterage 
• till 22 weeks: cuterage 

Pregnancy 

• When you are younger that 16 you do NOT need parental permission to make an appointment with the GP or clinic
• What you discuss with your GP, they are NOT allowed to pass on. They need your permission for that
• On the website of Fiom you can find information to help you make up your mind 
• Fiom can refer you to someone at the GGD with whom you can make an appointment to talk 

Pregnancy 

• Fiom gives information and online help to make a descision if you have a unwanted pregnancy 
• For young mothers till 23 years on tienermoeders.nl 
• On zorgkaartnederland.nl you can find the location of abortion clinics
• For information and help you can go to abortusverwerking.nl
• On zanzu you can find information on health in 16 different languages 

Birth control 

Birth control 

Five conditions for consent 

1. Freely given: There are no negative consequences at the moment that someone does nto engage in sexual acts. In no way is there pressure (implicit or explicit) or are promises made 
2. Reversible: At any moment someone can change their mind if they want to continue or not 
3. Informed: Everyone who is particpating in the sexual acts know what is happening and what the conseuqences are. Lying to get someone in bed is NOT consent 
4. Enthusiastic: The people wanting sex, show they are enthusiastic. Freezing up, no response and doubt is NOT consent 
5. Specific: There is specifically asked for what is happening. i.e: May I kiss you?

Someone keeps lurking and watching you

Yes

No

The persistent pursuit of someone

Yes

No

Someone touches your arm while you're speaking with them

Yes

No

Repeated invitations to sexual acts

Yes

No

Your boss/teacher/manager asks you on a date

Yes

No

Someone likes all your social media posts/photos

Yes

No

A teacher always leans over your shoulder and puts an arm around you

Yes

No

Someone tries to kiss you when you've already said no

Yes

No

Photos you sent in confidence are shared with others

Yes

No

You get your butt pinched in a busy pub/club

Yes

No

Help?

Veilig Thuis via 0800 2000 

Centrum Seksueel geweld (CSG) 0800 0188

Mentor or others at school  

Pressing charges - police