10.3 Relationships

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Are you ready?

- Put your phone in the phonebag

- Coats are on the coat rack or in your locker

- Bags are off the table

- Take off your hat or hoodie

- Books and laptops are on the table

- Did you do your homework?

 

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Turn your laptop backwards!

Schedule of today

• Test knowledge
• Instruction

        Relationships

        Sleeping together

        Consent

• Homework
• End of class

Learning objectives

You will learn about different relationships between people and what it means when you sleep with someone.

This Chapter

To grow up

Puberty

Relationships

STIs (STDs)

Changes in your brain

Small test 

monday 

03-20-2023

On social media some people may have hundreds or even thousands of ‘friends’.

How many real friends do teenagers have, on average?

1. Two to three
2. Four to five
3. Six to seven
4. Eight to nine

When animals are looking for a mate they show courtship behaviour.
What does that behaviour imply? Give two examples.

Social interaction

 and loyalty.

 

Who you hang out with and how you relate to others depends on values and norms.

Values (waarden)= what you think is important  (instance politeness, helpfulness, honesty, hospitality, self-control, and loyalty).

 

Norms (normen)= what you actually do or rather do not do. 

The value ‘loyalty’, for instance, and the norm ‘you never abandon your friends’ go together.

Can you name (a) reason(s) for people to sleep together?

Sexual intercourse

Sexual climax/orgasm = the nice feeling it gives you when you stroke your glans penis or clitoris.

Ejaculation = when sperm comes out of the  penis. 

Masturbation = to have an orgasm by stroking yourself

Arousal is necessary!

Wat does 'consent' mean?

What does this have to do with sexual intercourse?

Affirmative

Conscious

Scenarios about consent

Use a “thumbs up” if you think that consent is being used in the scenario.

Use a “thumbs down” if consent is not being used. 

Taylor and Brandy have previously hung out together with mutual friends, but

lately they have been spending more time alone. When they were at Taylor’s

house watching a movie, Brandy put an arm around Taylor and started kissing

Taylor’s neck. Taylor kept watching the movie and didn’t say anything. (NOT

CONSENT)

b. Lu and Sky are dating. They have just kissed a lot, and both are enjoying it.

While they are kissing, Lu asks Sky if Lu can go further. Lu nods yes and kisses

Sky again. (CONSENT)

c. Tory and Jean are at a party together. Tory has been really interested in Jean.

They both have been drinking and Tory decides to approach Jean. Jean is

much drunker than Tory and says, “Hey, take me out of here…” Tory has to hold

Jean up to keep Jean from falling as they weave through the crowd. When

they are outside, Tory starts kissing Jean. Jean passes out after they have been

kissing for a while. Tory runs a hand over Jean’s body. What could it hurt? (NOT

CONSENT)

d. Lamar and Freddie are hanging out in the parking lot after school. They are just

starting to realize they like each other a lot. Lamar reaches out to hold Freddie’s

hand, and Freddie reaches back. While they’re holding hands, Lamar says,

“Freddie, would it be okay if I kissed your cheek?” Freddie smiles and says, “Yes!”

Lamar gives Freddie a kiss on the cheek. (CONSENT) 

Video about the hymen (maagdenvlies)

What?	Make: 10.3 assignments 4-14
How?	In your (online) book. Choose: whispering or listening to music on your laptop.
Help?	Raise your hand. If he/she is not listening to music, you may ask your neighbour first.
Time?	10-15 minutes
Finished?	Check your answers. Then work on another subject.
Proceeds	You have finished your homework! Well done!